Hi, I’m Stephanie.
Your Divorce Strategy Coach.
Let’s figure out how to get you free.
My friend, I see you.
I’ve seen him ignore you at dinner, scrolling instead of engaging. Or, he talks over you. Never asks you about yourself. How, when you offer a thought, he pushes back. He doesn’t see you.
I’ve seen you hide your face in shame while he flips off other drivers and acts like he’s king of the road. He’s emotionally immature.
I’ve seen you carrying all the mental load, orchestrating an entire household while he can’t be bothered to put his socks in the laundry basket. Even after you’ve asked. Several times. He’s lazy and you’re exhausted.
You deserve a better life. Get free from him.
Tired of raising a middle-aged child?
You’ve tried to calmly discuss your concerns. You’ve tried to not-so-calmly discuss your concerns. You’ve vented to friends. You’ve suggested couples counseling. You’ve tried ignoring the problems. But you two just can’t get on the same page about the things you need to be happy.
And you deserve to be happy.
Not gonna lie - there are a lot of parts of the divorce process that also won’t be fun.
But, in the long run, you will be happier.
You’ll have your joy back.
I will make this process easier for you.
Schedule a free 20-minute call to see if we vibe well.
Get to the other side with a clear conscience.
Have peace of mind that you navigated the process as best you could, regardless of how he acts.
Disrupt the communication patterns that got you into this situation in the first place. Toxic, vacant, or hostile ways of talking to each other are going to continue in the divorce process and make matters much more frustrating and stressful unless you learn how to extract yourself from the pattern.
Our foremothers didn't have an option.
Marriage was a necessity. They couldn't get mortgages, bank accounts, or credit cards without a male co-signer.
My generation was raised on the same belief - that marriage was a requirement - even though that isn't the case anymore.
We were also raised on the notion of equal rights, outside and inside the home. We believed we'd have partners that pulled their own weight. So often, it turns out, we were wrong.
Now I see so many women in their midlife experiencing their husbands as yet another child to raise. Wondering if this is ever going to improve. Asking if this is the best that life has to offer. Hoping something will save them from living this relationship for the rest of their lives.
Something will save you. You.
Divorce is a big deal. It upends everything in your life. It is also completely survivable. You just need a guide that will walk you through the process and hold your hand the whole time.